"When I was growing up I remember asking my grandfather why he didn't have much to say. He said that just because I know something doesn't mean other people had to hear about it. At least not right away. It might sound like something harsh to say to a kid, but my grandfather is one of those outwardly sarcastic, inwardly kind types. I'm smart and figured out pretty young that I could put a shine on people telling them something that I'd learned, so when he said this to me I blew right past the message. So many possibilities exist, and then I start trying to tell you the way things are. Why would I do that? No, its better if I trust you to figure me out on your own. "

well said fellow online dater. well said.

PJ